Relationship and Marriage Counseling
- Experienced, Faith-Based Care
- Personalized Therapy for You
- A Safe, Supportive Environment
Find Couples Support That Heals and Strengthens
Whether you’re facing communication struggles, emotional disconnection, or recurring conflict, Lighthouse Counseling offers relationship counseling grounded in compassion, research, and faith. Our licensed marriage and family therapists help couples navigate challenges like infidelity, divorce, family systems stress, and more. Through evidence-based approaches like Gottman Method couples therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we support married couples, those seeking premarital counseling, and families working through relational pain.
You don’t have to face relationship problems alone. We help couples seek therapy in a setting that feels safe, respectful, and hopeful. From in-person sessions in Provo to online therapy options, we tailor treatment to your needs and long-term goals.
Resources for Relationship Counseling
We believe healing continues long after the therapy session ends. That’s why our curated mental health library offers books selected by mental health professionals to help couples reconnect, build communication skills, and grow together. From expert insights on anxiety, depression, substance abuse, and relationship challenges to practical tools for navigating issues like mental illness or one partner’s family dynamics, these resources support the work you’re doing in and out of the therapy room. Whether you’re in couples therapy, individual therapy, or exploring support for your unique journey, this collection offers guidance that matters.
Real Love: The Truth About Finding Unconditional Love and Fulfilling Relationships
by Greg Baer, M.D.
This book explains that most relationship pain stems from conditional love based on expectations and offers a transformative blueprint for discovering real love. Dr. Baer provides a step-by-step path to replace anger, resentment, and fear with peace, confidence, and fulfilling connections.
How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To
by Janis A. Abrahms Spring, Ph.D.
Janis Spring redefines forgiveness as a personal choice rather than a duty, validating both those who choose to forgive and those who don’t. She offers a thoughtful, empowering model that promotes genuine healing and accountability in the aftermath of betrayal.
Healing from Infidelity: The Divorce Busting Guide to Rebuilding Your Marriage After an Affair
by Michele Weiner-Davis
This book offers a practical, step-by-step guide for couples who want to recover and rebuild their marriage after an affair. It walks readers through managing emotional fallout, restoring trust, and strengthening the relationship long term.
The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond
by Patricia Evans
This guide exposes the many faces of verbal abuse, from subtle put-downs to overt threats, and shows how these patterns erode self-esteem and emotional health. With practical scripts and boundary-setting tools, Evans empowers individuals to stand up to abuse and reclaim their self-worth.
Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can and Should Be Saved
by Lundy Bancroft and JAC Patrissi
This guide helps individuals assess whether their relationship is truly changeable or inherently destructive. It provides clarity, exercises, and support for making empowered decisions rooted in self-respect and emotional safety.
Testimonials from Those We've Helped
I highly recommend Dean Anderson and his practice. He is the perfect balance of listening to understand, and then offering useful, practical solutions and tools to help you improve your life. I look forward to working with him in the future.
Kristy
I’ve had an amazing experience working with Dean! Dean provides the perfect balance of listening and providing good feedback. He’s also a very respectful, light-hearted, and trustable counsellor. And as someone who has had multiple therapists, Dean was by far the one that I’ve had the best experience with. Multiple factors go into having a good therapy experience, but I think Dean is absolutely worth giving a shot in your journey of healing.
Noah
Lighthouse Counseling and Dean Anderson has been wonderful to work with over the years. I can’t say enough how much good has come from working with Dean and the wonderful folks at Lighthouse. I can honestly say Dean has been a game changer for my marriage!
Travis
Your Path to Healing Starts Here
Your healing matters. Let’s begin together
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Let’s Talk
Your first step is simply reaching out. We’re here to listen and help.
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Your Safe Place Begins Here
You’ll sit down with Dean, someone who truly listens and tailors your care to your needs.
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Begin Your Healing Journey
Together with Dean, you’ll build a path forward that honors your values, goals, and pace.
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Keep Growing Between Sessions
Healing doesn’t stop after your session. Dean’s resources help you keep growing, learning, and feeling supported.
We’ll help you with insurance
At your first session, we will evaluate your insurance and help you understand your costs and possible options.
Flexible Monthly Payment Plans
Affordable self-pay rates and flexible monthly plans available.
We’ll Help You With Insurance
At your first session we will evaluate your insurance and help you understand your costs and possible options.
Get Started Today
Call us to review your options and schedule your first appointment.
Frequently Asked Relationship Counseling Questions
If you’re wondering what to expect from couples counseling, you’re not alone. Here are some common questions we hear from couples and families exploring therapy for the first time.
What is the success rate of couples counseling?
Research suggests that about 70–75% of couples who engage in couples counseling report significant improvements in their relationship. Success depends on many factors, including willingness to grow, the timing of seeking help, and the quality of the therapeutic relationship. When both partners are committed, counseling can be a transformative step toward healing and connection.
Ready to begin your healing journey together? Schedule a session today.
How much should couples therapy cost?
Costs can vary based on the therapist’s credentials, session length, and whether you’re using insurance. On average, sessions range from $100 to $250. Some therapists offer sliding scale options to make care more accessible. At Lighthouse Counseling, we’re happy to discuss rates and help you explore the best fit for your situation, both emotionally and financially.
Call us to learn more about pricing, insurance, and flexible options.
What percent of couples divorce after couples therapy?
While there’s no single statistic that applies to all cases, studies show that couples who attend therapy early—before things reach a crisis—are far less likely to separate. Even when divorce does happen, therapy often helps couples part with more understanding and less resentment, which is especially important if children are involved.
It’s never too early—or too late—to ask for help. Book a consultation now.
What is done in couples therapy?
Couples therapy is a safe place where both partners can explore relationship patterns, rebuild trust, and improve communication. A trained couples therapist may guide you through exercises, teach tools for conflict resolution, and create space for honest conversations. The goal isn’t to assign blame, but to foster understanding, empathy, and hope.
Let’s talk about how therapy can help you reconnect. Schedule today.
What is the success rate of marriage Counselling?
Marriage counseling is highly effective when both partners are open to the process. The American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy reports that over 90% of couples feel better after counseling, and three out of four couples see improvements in their relationship. The success of marriage counseling depends on timing, effort, and finding the right therapist for your needs.
Take the first step toward healing—contact Lighthouse Counseling today.
How do I know if my marriage is beyond repair?
That’s a deeply personal question—and one only you can truly answer. But many couples feel hopeless before therapy and later discover new possibilities for growth. If there’s still a willingness to try, and if both partners are open to professional help, there’s often more hope than it seems. A therapist can help you explore this without pressure or judgment.
If you’re unsure, let’s talk. A safe, honest space is waiting for you.
How do I fix my broken marriage?
The first step is reaching out. Healing begins with honesty, vulnerability, and a shared desire to repair what’s been damaged. Working with a licensed therapist can give you tools to rebuild trust, communicate more clearly, and understand each other in deeper ways. Even small shifts in how you relate can open the door to lasting change.
There is hope for restoration. Schedule your first session today.
Meet the Team Who Cares
Support starts with the people who care.
Dean Anderson
Founder & Lead Therapist
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 30 years of experience, Dean brings deep wisdom, compassion, and faith-based guidance to every session. He’s known for helping clients feel safe, understood, and empowered.
Becky Anderson
Receptionist
Becky is often the first friendly voice you’ll hear. Her warmth and genuine care help make every client feel welcome from the very first call.
Emily Garcia
Office Manager
As a Social Service Worker, Emily supports clients with kindness and heart. She brings a calm, steady presence to our office, helping every person feel valued and supported.
Insights & Support from the Lighthouse Blog
Explore helpful articles on mental health, relationships, faith, and healing. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, seeking marriage counseling in Orem, Utah, or just looking for guidance, our blog is here to shine a light on your path forward.
Understanding Relationship Burnout: Signs and Solutions for Couples
August 1st 2025
Recognize the signs of relationship burnout and discover practical solutions to reignite your connection. Read the article to revive your partnership.
Recognizing the Subtle Signs of Depression: What You Need to Know
August 10th 2025
Discover the subtle signs of depression and learn how to recognize them. Understand the importance of awareness and get the support you need.
Navigating Grief & Grief‑Like
Losses
August 12th 2025
Struggling with grief after divorce, job change, or an empty nest? Learn what grief feels like after major life changes.